Thursday, 23 July 2009

summerflings and lost loves

my mum used to tell me that I should
"never chase after two things in life:
trams and boys.
because when you least expect it, a new one shows up!"

another saying is that when it rains, it pours...funny how that fits sometimes... haha

flirting and dating put aside, a lot has been fixing people up this year. fun to see friends find happiness, love and fun times in unexpected places. makes me smile.
some last a few weeks, some months or even years, but everybody could do with a summerfling to brighten up the dull everyday-grind 'ey?!
I know I'd never turn a hot summerfling down ;o)

I reckon the best way to set people up is to casually bring them together at a party or other, get them talking to eachother without them knowing they've been set up is almost me fav bit hehe
am a bit of a sneak but seriously, how fun is it to feel tricked into talking to someone you don't fancy + never even met before just because you're single?
I certainly do not enjoy that bit, the pushy, charital way people have of feeling sorry for their single friend... it's like "let's set her up with someone so that she'll be happy"!
I bloody well am happy, thank youse very much, now bugger off!!
better to do it sneaky and if it works then grand, if not, then there's always next party to see who hits it off with whom :o)

and about lost loves, why is it that some bits of your heart seem to be forever lost? are we supposed to claim them back when the relationship ends or just come to terms with the fact that we did love and that's gone?
I wish it was as simple as to just being able to just walk up to a counter, hand over your receipt and your missing piece would be restored.
no more haunting emotions, thoughts and memories.

but that me duckies, is impossible, we grow through our chances, experiences, loves, losses and who would want to be stuck in the same place for the rest of their life?
I wouldn't be where I am inside today if I hadn't loved and lost. I wouldn't change a thing.
I love me.

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