thoughts on sex 1

what's worse?
being single and having no sex or
being in a relationship and not having sex?
to me the answer's obvious!

I can only speak for meself but I choose to have a grand sexlife when I'm single. I've got a few sexpartners and we hang out, talk and have great sex. I prefer that to onenighters, think I've outgrown them.
I never could quite grasp the whole idea that women shouldn't hook up whilst single. I hook up and I do it good, as often as I please. does that qualify me to be a "loose woman"?


so I've figured out what's worse and that's not having sex whilst in a relationship.
I'll tell you why; because when one's single one can just send a naughty text to one of ones fb's and hook up but when one's in a longdistance relationship the naughty text sort of falls short of a hook up.


fancy knowing what brought this to mind?
two reasons:
one ~ I just realized I haven't gone without sex for this long since March!
two ~ me birthday's Monday and I won't get me promised special birthday-sex!

hahaha